Comments on: Loneliness http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/ Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:44:12 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.6 hourly 1 By: Chidiebere http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-555 Chidiebere Mon, 25 Jan 2010 15:18:09 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-555 Mine is not really a reply but a contribution to encourage those who feel they are lonely. It all depends on your level of loneliness. I experienced loneliness when I lost my job in 1995. This period, I was alone a home because I have not gotten something that will keep me busy. I know very well that within this trial period that God was up to something. One day I was praying and I asked God to change my situation. I had a voice from God. The voice said, “there is something in your hand, use it.” To cut the story short, I was able to write a christian book with a little topic that came in my mind after my prayer. Loneliness is a good opportunity to commune with God. Remember, Jesus was alone each time He wants to talk to God. If you are alone, there is something God want to establish in your life. Just have a good relationship with Him and you will never regret it. God bless you. Dcn Eligwe Mine is not really a reply but a contribution to encourage those who feel they are lonely. It all depends on your level of loneliness. I experienced loneliness when I lost my job in 1995. This period, I was alone a home because I have not gotten something that will keep me busy. I know very well that within this trial period that God was up to something. One day I was praying and I asked God to change my situation. I had a voice from God. The voice said, “there is something in your hand, use it.” To cut the story short, I was able to write a christian book with a little topic that came in my mind after my prayer. Loneliness is a good opportunity to commune with God. Remember, Jesus was alone each time He wants to talk to God. If you are alone, there is something God want to establish in your life. Just have a good relationship with Him and you will never regret it. God bless you. Dcn Eligwe

]]> By: LINDA http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-548 LINDA Thu, 21 Jan 2010 06:24:42 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-548 Either it is the loss of loved ones (death, divorce, change of location etc), job or late marriage and so on, like I mentioned above, please do not allow the situation to get into you because that is the first step to the solution.  It works because it makes you strong to face the situation appropriately.  Taking the second step of seeking refuge in God crowns it all.  Studying His Word, applying and confessing it to the situation solves the problem. Usually, He will solve it in His way not as expected by you and you will be amazed.  Thank you. Either it is the loss of loved ones (death, divorce, change of location etc), job or late marriage and so on, like I mentioned above, please do not allow the situation to get into you because that is the first step to the solution.  It works because it makes you strong to face the situation appropriately.  Taking the second step of seeking refuge in God crowns it all.  Studying His Word, applying and confessing it to the situation solves the problem. Usually, He will solve it in His way not as expected by you and you will be amazed.  Thank you.

]]> By: Yinka Oladeji http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-547 Yinka Oladeji Wed, 20 Jan 2010 20:38:23 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-547 loneliness kills faster than any ailment, sometimes i guess loneliness come as a result of your decisions, of either indulging yourself in waywardness or turning your back on wayward life to serving God , though the latter has a way of stopping you from doing what is now term catching fun eg night clubbing, partying etc which although sometimes gives temporal happiness but also has a way of linking you up and getting you busy, but notwithstanding one can as well catch fun serving and doing what God expects of us and that is just the way out. loneliness kills faster than any ailment, sometimes i guess loneliness come as a result of your decisions, of either indulging yourself in waywardness or turning your back on wayward life to serving God , though the latter has a way of stopping you from doing what is now term catching fun eg night clubbing, partying etc which although sometimes gives temporal happiness but also has a way of linking you up and getting you busy, but notwithstanding one can as well catch fun serving and doing what God expects of us and that is just the way out.

]]> By: nudewhenu http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-545 nudewhenu Wed, 20 Jan 2010 15:47:10 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-545 whatever happen to you just try to make yurslf happy whatever happen to you just try to make yurslf happy

]]> By: fsilas http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-544 fsilas Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:28:42 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-544 Adora, this is more of the spiritual than the physical, u have morethan just waiting to do, a serious prayer and fasting will help if u can bear the pain, since this is not about u alone but a re occurence in the family than it is posibly not your fault but more of inherited maybe a fight against your parent and the truth is that no one among u have taking the bold step to break the barrier. somebody must take resposibility and fight it on behalf of the family. please dont let that way u dawn. remember you are someone strength and happiness and that person will be looking for u because he is also your joy and dreams come true. and please do not chose for God cus he knows you beter than u know yourself. (1) pray against every inherited courses form your father and mothers house. (2)any convenant entered on your behalf that is working against u. (3) every spirit of rejection in marriage. ther are so many other prayer points cus u have to take the bull by the horn. Adora, this is more of the spiritual than the physical, u have morethan just waiting to do, a serious prayer and fasting will help if u can bear the pain, since this is not about u alone but a re occurence in the family than it is posibly not your fault but more of inherited maybe a fight against your parent and the truth is that no one among u have taking the bold step to break the barrier. somebody must take resposibility and fight it on behalf of the family.

please dont let that way u dawn. remember you are someone strength and happiness and that person will be looking for u because he is also your joy and dreams come true. and please do not chose for God cus he knows you beter than u know yourself.
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pray against every inherited courses form your father and mothers house. (2)any convenant entered on your behalf that is working against u. (3) every spirit of rejection in marriage. ther are so many other prayer points cus u have to take the bull by the horn.

]]> By: Adorableyk2 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-543 Adorableyk2 Wed, 20 Jan 2010 09:04:47 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-543 Hey Seth, thanks so much for the wonderful words of encouragement. I have really been lifted knowing I'm not alone. I will also join my faith with yours concerning your sister and will use our case as a point of contact to others out there in our shoes. God bless you and have a wonderful day. Hey Seth, thanks so much for the wonderful words of encouragement. I have really been lifted knowing I'm not alone. I will also join my faith with yours concerning your sister and will use our case as a point of contact to others out there in our shoes. God bless you and have a wonderful day.

]]> By: Linda http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-542 Linda Wed, 20 Jan 2010 08:45:54 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-542 My opinion is that we should learn to have control over our mind and emotions.  This will help you to make the right decision at any time.  If you allow your situation or circumstance get into you, you will lose your peace and joy giving room for loneliness and depression.  Though it is difficult but it can be learnt.  God help us. My opinion is that we should learn to have control over our mind and emotions.  This will help you to make the right decision at any time.  If you allow your situation or circumstance get into you, you will lose your peace and joy giving room for loneliness and depression.  Though it is difficult but it can be learnt.  God help us.

]]> By: Ayo http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-540 Ayo Tue, 19 Jan 2010 19:59:52 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-540 My advise to the single ones out there, relationship is not something you just dabble into or something you recieve or believe, it is a practical thing and the truth is that, we all know what we want and who we can tolerate. Unfortunately, in the recent world of ours, very few people build relationships, a large percentage of people would rather search for a ready-made guy/lady who they might not really love or know well enough and as a result they end up being unhappy in their relationships. Like Chaz always says" loneliness is not lack of affection but lack of direction. Therefore, try to create inner peace with yourself, think positively, have a positive outlook on life, be good, think of what you can do to make other smile and etc, and by so doing, you end up making yourself happy.... hope i have made a reasonable point ! My advise to the single ones out there, relationship is not something you just dabble into or something you recieve or believe, it is a practical thing and the truth is that, we all know what we want and who we can tolerate. Unfortunately, in the recent world of ours, very few people build relationships, a large percentage of people would rather search for a ready-made guy/lady who they might not really love or know well enough and as a result they end up being unhappy in their relationships. Like Chaz always says" loneliness is not lack of affection but lack of direction. Therefore, try to create inner peace with yourself, think positively, have a positive outlook on life, be good, think of what you can do to make other smile and etc, and by so doing, you end up making yourself happy…. hope i have made a reasonable point !

]]> By: tunde http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-539 tunde Tue, 19 Jan 2010 16:27:22 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-539 Adora, i never met to be judgemental, i said that becos some girls can be very choosy, just yesterday evening there was a hookup programme on Rhythem, and a lady called and was asking the presenter to hook her up with a tall handsome guy that she cannot understand the reason why its only short guys that have been disturbing her and she is tired of short guys ..."i don't want short guys in my life" these were her words. so sorry if i have taken you as one of them. i never met to be judgemental thank you. very soon now this type of girl will start crying for no husband, instead her to pray for her own. though i understand that this attitude is mostly found in unbelievers. you are not one, forget about whatevr anybody may think of you and keep your gaze on God. very soon you will give testimony. thank you Adora, i never met to be judgemental, i said that becos some girls can be very choosy, just yesterday evening there was a hookup programme on Rhythem, and a lady called and was asking the presenter to hook her up with a tall handsome guy that she cannot understand the reason why its only short guys that have been disturbing her and she is tired of short guys …"i don't want short guys in my life" these were her words. so sorry if i have taken you as one of them. i never met to be judgemental thank you.

very soon now this type of girl will start crying for no husband, instead her to pray for her own. though i understand that this attitude is mostly found in unbelievers. you are not one, forget about whatevr anybody may think of you and keep your gaze on God. very soon you will give testimony. thank you

]]> By: Adorableyk2 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/2010/01/18/loneliness/comment-page-1/#comment-538 Adorableyk2 Tue, 19 Jan 2010 14:03:44 +0000 http://www.sharinglifeissues.com/?p=412#comment-538 Thanks Tunde for your comments and advise. I would like to point out one mistake that most people make about ladies that have delayed marriages. They jump to conclusions that you must have been the ones that have been choosy etc, but that is not always the case. I have not had a wreckless past and I have practiced a lot of kingdom principles in terms of waiting on the Lord to intervene in a hopeless situation. I have been in a relationship with a guy that was just starting in life when I was already set up, still he dumped me for no just cause. Now he calls me and says he can't explain what happened then but that I am a very nice person and he prays for me to be happily settled by God. So you explain that. Thanks Tunde for your comments and advise. I would like to point out one mistake that most people make about ladies that have delayed marriages. They jump to conclusions that you must have been the ones that have been choosy etc, but that is not always the case. I have not had a wreckless past and I have practiced a lot of kingdom principles in terms of waiting on the Lord to intervene in a hopeless situation. I have been in a relationship with a guy that was just starting in life when I was already set up, still he dumped me for no just cause. Now he calls me and says he can't explain what happened then but that I am a very nice person and he prays for me to be happily settled by God. So you explain that.

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