Comments on: Fantasy/Emotional Cheating

By: Jossy

Jossy — Tue, 18 Oct 2011 09:18:34 +0000

Hi Leo, Well to an extent i wont blame ur girl. If u were really serious why wld u keep a girl for 4 years+.
I am a lady, i spent 4 yrs with a guy(worker in church). he had no job i waited for him to get a job and built himself up, i gave him all d money he need and now he is very ok, we agreed to tie d nuts, after traditional marriage n church counselling, he refused to pick a date, he started dogging every1 pastors, our mentors etc. i had to hear from outside that he's no longer going thru wt d wedding. The wedding was suppose to be in May 2011, but we didnt hv it and till now we don't talk. As it is i dont think i want to spend any long time with any guy (even if he claims to be a Christian).

By: ruth

ruth — Tue, 14 Jun 2011 16:54:17 +0000

disobident is the reason wy god pursued them.

By: Tgal

Tgal — Sat, 20 Nov 2010 14:45:55 +0000

Hi Chaz B. As 4 me thou,i sincerely believe that as humans we all indulge in different forms of fantasy and there is nothin wrong wit that,cos even in d bible we are told that God cald those thins that be not as thou they are,so! since we are HIS replica on earth there is no crime wishin n callin 4 a gud life,wch will ultimately come forth.Wen we truly believe.

By: Anon

Anon — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 10:11:24 +0000

Really, i must confess this is true cos i am speaking from personal experience. i got married to my husband a virgin and i have always fantasised abt how romatic my wedding will be blah blah…but really for the 2yrs we have been together, i dont know what good sex is because i just allow him to do it and he doesnt really ask if i enjoy it or not,so many things put my off when we are in it, eg his nails might be long there by causing me pain or he forgets to wash his hands after eating thereby making me feel peppery sensations down there.
Just last ight, i was watching a nig film,and there is this actor i love so much that i was already imagining being his wife and all that…i know this line of thot is bed because at the end of the day, i always dream abt what i fantasies on. Sincerely Chaz B, i need serious help in this area cos even when i try to tell him what i will like to put me in the mood, he is always like i love doing what i read in books and all that wont help etc……can someone proffer a lasting soln, i have spoken to God to help us cos i dont want to jeopardise my marriage with some useless fantasises

By: bunmi

bunmi — Thu, 21 Oct 2010 10:04:54 +0000

By: ibukun jacobs

ibukun jacobs — Wed, 13 Oct 2010 11:32:36 +0000

what is the real resign wy God pursue adam and eve pls help me

By: Leo

Leo — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 12:46:45 +0000

well now she opened up to tell me.Now she sends me txt dat she thinks she made a mistake. n she is confused n dnt know wat she doin n all that stuff. But d bottom line here is dat she has betrayed a 4 year+ relationship in a month her confusion.she had compared me wt ds guy n felt he was a real deal.What kind of Fun guy wuld do that to a lady. n says he truely loves her….BUT now she is sick after eatin chineeze rice,d guy hasnt called to check up her.mean while iv been callin….Pls wat do i do now…iv 4given her n i still wuld like her back…though pple arnd say NO she shud go…bt m willing to receive her

By: Leo

Leo — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 12:46:06 +0000

na waooo….sunday.dis fun guy being callin her up. told her that de shud hang out on friday(last friday) she agreed. she told me n every1 else she was goin to school to spend d 9t to return on saturday.she left school friday at about 4pm to go be wt him..which she didnt think..jumbed in a cab n met up wt him at a hotel.This Fun guy..told her he cudnt take her to his place cos he was stayin wt his parents bt lodged at a hotel.They spend d 9t out eatin chinees fried rice at JADE PLACE in GRA. 8r took her back to d hotel sayin it was late to drop her off.Chaz B that 9t they laid wt each other.she even told me she told d FUN guy she wasnt safe…so he (FUN GUY, SPIRITUAL) brot out a pack of condom.LOLOLsure u no wetin happen naaa…

By: Leo

Leo — Mon, 11 Oct 2010 12:42:02 +0000

Chaz B.I nid help.Ive bin in a relationship 4 4yrs+ now…Last month i was about to leave 4 a masters in d UK.At d time my Gfrnd was on holidays (I month)in d U.S.A. and for 2weeks she neva called or txt.Caught her up on line.first She said said she didnt hav a fone.bt gave me a No. dat cudnt be reached.after 2 weeks it went tru.Now on the last 2 weeks. she opened to me she was in love wt someone else.Her reason was d Guy was a FUN GUY,very SPIRITUAL,FUNNY,FASHION STYLES,HE MAKES MONEY …WELL U NO D REST! while i, work in a bank,not enuf,we argue most time,i dnt take her out (even wen i do she refuse cos she is tired at that time),i have family responsibilty etc.Now she arrived on Sunday.she told me she deeply loves this guy n wonts to date him & not me no more.( I was Shocked Chaz B).she was introduced to her by her elder sis hubby who knew she had me for 4yrs to her cousin(D guy).

By: Jaylee

Jaylee — Sat, 21 Aug 2010 17:35:02 +0000

fantasies are good depending on how we look at them. God had a Fantasy about the world before creation took place.