Comments on: Must We Get Married ? (more on marriage issues)

By: Chibuzor 'Mac

Chibuzor 'Mac — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 12:42:17 +0000

hello Chaz B, gud day. Am Chibuzor 'Mac. following the biblical injunction, marriage is not a do or die affair. one shouldn't be forced into it, either by societal, family or personal induced pressures. Marriage IS meant only for those singles that sincerely understand that they can't be alone and are desirous to CLEAVE (as an intrasitive verb) to somebody of LIKE MIND OR INTEREST. It is interestingly to note that, if a man choses to remain single, due to his personal decision(with regards to Nnamdi's case), he's supposedly expected NOT to have any 'entanglement' with the opposite sex. He can'nt eat his cake and still expect it to be with him at the same time. l as a person can'nt decide to remain single but still enjoy romantic moment with the opposite sex. However, this is only for those that believe on biblical injunctions as x-rayed by Apostle Paul.
thank you

By: fsilas

fsilas — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 09:29:14 +0000

Hi Chaz B, this is Silas. this is a very interesting topic. Some Marriages are enviable while some are not. though not married, but have friend, relatives and Mentors that are married. it is actualy not a must if u can do without fornication but bacause it is almost imposible and it is an institution establish by God himself for mankind, therefore, if a man is fortunate to find a wife and not a woman then he has find a favour from God according to the Bible. then you will see marriage as a must because it will definately make u and if u are unfortunate to find a woman then marriage becomes hell and worth not going into. But Chaz B, i have a big respect for the maraige institution and am looking forward to finding my missing Rib.

By: Esha

Esha — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 08:24:54 +0000

Hi Chaz, morning. i did not have the opportunity to listen to ur show yesterday. But i just read through now and honestly i agree with what u said. GOD created marriage and he said it again in his word that a man will leave his father and mother and become ‘one’ with his wife. Paul went on to stress that fact when he said that if a man cannot hold his body it is better for him to get married. I mean, come on, no man in these times that we live in can honestly say that he does not lust after women and can actually do up to 4 (no, too much)….1 month without touching a woman. Except he has been castrated. Some people might feel it is not a must but our creator ordained it for man to marry. At a point in time, if the man is not yet married, he begins to feel incomplete in a way. As if something is missing and yes……something IS missing. The wife. i know it is quite hard to find that person one needs because this is the reality that we live in. But it is not impossible. So my own opinion is Yes, we do need to get married. Talking about marriage, Chaz B, when is urs? lol. I wish u better days in 2010. And u are really doing a beautiful job. Keep it up.

By: chigozie

chigozie — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 06:38:05 +0000

Good morning Chaz B, please i would like to know the six reasons you highlighted on Radio why men delay in getting married. i was listening your show on my way home but could not get all.
may God almighty continue to Bless you for the good work you are doing for the people of Lagosa.Let me be the first to wish you Happy new year.