Comments on: Relationship With Mothers. Bad or Testimony?

By: C.N

C.N — Thu, 01 Jul 2010 10:49:26 +0000

Am sorry o! But how can he be a wonderful man if he cheats on you? Don't you think your mom saw through him and detected that he would be no-good for you. My dear, do not ignore the instincts of a good mother. they are always right in the end.

By: oluwafunmilayo

oluwafunmilayo — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 07:22:51 +0000

God has made it to be so,you cant beat the fact that women are more loving and caring than men to an extent,ur more is alway der for u any day any time nobody can beat dat

By: chigozie

chigozie — Thu, 17 Dec 2009 06:27:23 +0000

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By: Dilly

Dilly — Thu, 29 Oct 2009 00:45:10 +0000

its really challenging for you; mom & husby
well for your mom all you can do is fine her best friend some one she does listen to? then 2ru that way you can reach her heart. and for husby {cheating?} inspite of what he knows you go 2ru wt ur mom, again find out what is weak point and appeal to his mind…note every man/woman has a breaking point of heart.
God will see you 2ru this cross you are carring now…continue in ur prayer, u will win at last

By: bunmi

bunmi — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 16:04:31 +0000

I have a good relationship with my mother and I love her dearly. I didnt’t get to know how valuable and what impact a mother has in the life of her children until I had my first baby.Yes……..she can be very annoying sometimes, but i still love her. Don’t know what i would do without her love and support, she’s always there for me and my siblings and everyone. Fine growing up she wasn’t the best a mother should be to her children, but that i bliv was as a result of her own background and my father’s influence on her. Nevertheless she has always be there, supportive, prayerful. I pray she lives very long!

By: Olarh

Olarh — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 13:13:06 +0000

I believe that parents especially mothers know that their children's place is always with love in their hearts. I have a wonderful relationship with my mum (mumzie) but for a long time I didnt understand her, I thought she was being partial to my brother. I was closer to my sister which is her first. She didnt get along with her at all. We had this 'it's-us-against-the-world' thing going on but as we grew older we got wiser. I have heard stories of mums putting their children thru emotional trauma and how some mums are just so wonderful they do no wrong.
I learnt from my mum and my experiences growing up, also from other people's experiences and am happy to say that I could never have had another mum than my mumzie. I pray for all those who have challenges with their mums, may God help you to find His joy even in this pain. Keep your heads up!

By: Mobby

Mobby — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 11:29:22 +0000

my mum is okay, she is kind, n loving. Her Children's worries are her pains.She goes extra mile for us n even to our friends, I cant count the number how many of our friends that she has assisted to prepare for their wedding. She is a Wonderful Mama. wuld want to have her again n again as my Mum.
I love her Dearly. Mum my wish for you is Long Healthy years ahead.
To you out there having some problems wit your Mum, I pray that God will you grant you Peace n Grace to settle all the scores. Amen

By: phunmius

phunmius — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 10:33:30 +0000

I am very fortunate to have a very loving, caring and understanding mum. To me i believe she is the best mum in the world. For a lot of friends out there who hurting deeply as a result of the kind of relationship that exists between them and their mum, I pray God's love will fill their hearts and he will also give them the opportunity to reconcile. I love you all

By: Dum

Dum — Wed, 28 Oct 2009 08:27:17 +0000

“Son, listen to me, there is one thing you can’t change in this life, that am your mother and you are my son” This words changed my pespective about some issues.

Bad relationship with mothers Chaz! you need to wear that shoe to know where it pinches because trying to explain it to someone makes you look bad to your listener. You would hear things like your mother can’t be that bad! how can? or a sympathetic expression that depicts “i dont believe you”.

Its just not a fair game!

However,my advise to all who are hurting on this issue is to look on the bright side and just forgive them. Keep reaching out to them. They will turn around someday. But if it doesnt…. your luck . Just dont let it be that you didn’t try at all. It could go both ways though.

I didn’t grow up with my mother either but she is still my friend. Just be nice and manage the relationship.

By: kanni

kanni — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 21:39:27 +0000

my mother will be 78yrs this nov. I had wonderful relationship with her until about 12 yrs ago because of the man i married. she has refused to give me her blessing, does not take my calls or answer my greetings. she even walked me out of our family house and warns that I should not set my foot there again. All pleas from relations, siblings, aunts, uncles even my husband she gave deaf ears to them. I am believing that she will change her mind and give me her blessing. It moves me to tears each time I remember my stand with her. The only consolation I get is that I married a wonderful man though he cheats on me.