Comments on: Infidelity In Marriage, Who Is To Blame?

By: Anonymous

Anonymous — Wed, 28 Jul 2010 15:44:12 +0000

The cheater is to blame..completely.
I have absolutely no patience for people who cheat and then arm themselves with all sorts of excuses in self delusion. The bible says a wise woman builds her house, our parents say 'jiri ire gi guo eze gi'
People should stop taking the easy way out and get with the program.
Nothing good comes easy so it really comes down to choice – the broad road or the narrow path?
your choice determines the end result and if they are children involved then the cheater is just plain selfish.

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By: Aisha

Aisha — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:15:45 +0000

chaz b im really grateful for this work of urs u hv inspired me in so many ways.may Almighty God continue to bless you(AMEN).

By: Aisha

Aisha — Mon, 21 Jun 2010 12:15:13 +0000

my opinion on this is that most marriages are based on the wrong foundation.either age pressure,status n titles,material wealth,getting married without having any inner conviction(u r nt even sure of the step u r about to take even a week to ur wedding) etc marriages r bound to have challenges two diff. ppl leaving together forever is no joke! but geniune love n the foundation of God will see u thru.no matter wat u going thru just have patience n pray ur way thru.CHEATING is never n will never be a solution to any problem in a marriage.if it is an infidelity case or something u r really convinced you can never live with is better u opt out n get a divorce.but sincerely, sometimes we invite problems ourselves.may God help us all with our marriages.

By: scorpi

scorpi — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 00:13:59 +0000

cheating occurs when there we allow ourselves to become tempted. i have had various encounters with married men and though i havent allowed the temptation to get the better side of me i sometimes i see it as the wifes fault. They know that there are many desperate ladies out there and yet we see young wives that cant cook for their husbands of those that travel constantly knowing the type of husbands they have. Other times i just think that men feel the need to think they are young again which some people call the MID AGE CRISES, it makes them chase after youger women who rub their tummies and tell them their balding heads still look handsome while extracting all they can from their pockets. i just wish men can communicate more with their women and not always keep secrets or how they really feel. A good woman would understand you and would always no matter what try her best to do what she can to make you feel good. After THE DOCTORS say thats why WOMEN can fake an ORGASM to make their men feel good with themselves. men need to put some more effort.

By: Scorpi

Scorpi — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 00:04:42 +0000

well i just think that its different strokes for different folks. Im single and i know its not cumpolsury to get married. Many people get married for the wrongest of reasons and regret it later. People change after marriage because all the pretense is gone but ill say this. what ever you wont ordinarily condone when in a relationship or about entering one dont let it spread to your marriage. we sometimes see a lady who has a boyfriend who occasionally slaps her around, and she doesnt stop him from doing it again what makes her think he would change with marriage. Especially women they just act desperate to settle down because "oh! all my mates are getting married", dear it may just not be your turn yet.

By: oluwafunmilayo

oluwafunmilayo — Fri, 09 Apr 2010 07:43:19 +0000

Hi chazb you know the problem people have is that they refuse to tell them self the truth both men and women,we go to church everday,we hear peopes experience,we listen to programme like yours but we refuse to tell ourselve the truth,you should learn from your enviroment and be determined that their some things that we wont do and lets see if our marriages will work or not.

By: Blessing

Blessing — Thu, 08 Apr 2010 07:58:21 +0000

Am 32year old, am in love with a guy of 30year old. After 3year of relationship, he said he want to go back to school and he just got a good job that he decided to sign a contract with them for 4year. What i do?because i truly love this guy.

By: Adedayo

Adedayo — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 01:19:36 +0000

you know, my marriage is not yet up to a year, but everytime I have an arguement with my wife, I think of getting a girl outside. Butthe truth is i have made up my mind never to ever cheat on my wife, and I quickly get rid of the thought.
thank God for my wise counsel, I now know that as the man, I have a responsibility to ensure that my marriage is in good condition, no matter what.
I have thought of what i would do if my wife cheats on me, and the fact is that I have made up my mind that i wouldn't let it destroy marriage.

However, in light of this, i make sure that i make my wife happy as much as I can. she's a Godly person, and I see it as my duty to protect her from feeling justified by any action of mine.

I know human Love can turn sour, but God's love is everlasting.

The problem is putting it in practice.

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