Comments on: Horrors of Ritual Killings And Kidnappings In Nigeria

By: kanni

kanni — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 23:51:35 +0000

I totally agree with Dum and Onyx on the issue of infidelity by women in marriage. This is where family values come to play. We need to pray for our daughters and sisters to be Godly women that they are created to be. we also need to pray for the spirit of contentment in them so that they will take what comes their way as all they need.

By: Onyx

Onyx — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 12:58:08 +0000

I agree with Dum that infidelity is a personality trait. But I want to emphasize something here which is individual level perseverance differs a lot. What a woman can endure or tolerate for 35yrs cannot be endured by another woman for 7 days. So it is wrong to use that yardstick for decision making in this circumstance, would rather advise men to avoid anything that would make their wives cheat on them and also women should always “look before they leap” most of these traits are always there and seen before marriage most likely during courtship or whatever but we tend to deceive ourselves with the slogan “he loves me and i love him so i can change him”. It doesn’t work because in a ten men may be 1 or 2 worked so either we like it or not that traits comes back calling one day. Then that is I’ll call REALITY or if i may paraphrase it ‘eye opener’. It is only God that perfects a man and no mortal can do that. So dear ladies, what you won’t tolerate in marriage don’t overlook it in relationship or courtship as it may.
Chaz B, the great Marshal of the house, we appreciate you a lot and may God bless you.

By: Dum

Dum — Thu, 22 Oct 2009 10:34:22 +0000

Hey Chaz, on the last Topic of Infidelity by women in marriages, I think it goes both ways but let it be known that fidelity is a personality trait, if you don’t have it time will tell.

We have to learn to choose wisely and act nicely!

There are women whose husbands are he -devils and they remained faithful till either the man changes, dies or gets a divorce (if you can’t deal with it or your life is at risk = HIV). The Lord is your strenght but men can be stubid you know.

Fidelity is a personal decison to be dependable and faithtful to your partner in marriage no matter the situation( for better for worse, your husband’s misbehavior is not an excuse. So continue to be faithful with caution and pray for him, am very sure he will turn around with time. Don’t try to get even by grabbing booty girl! it never turns out well. Two wrongs has never made a right!

I want to prescribe a movie : “Fireproof” Its a must watch for every couple. Trust me. It really takes 100% from each partner to hold a home not the shared 50-50. You need to hold forthfor the ailing partner , if you can’t. Please walk away.

By: BENIE

BENIE — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 16:02:46 +0000

It is disheartening how ritual killings have become the order of the day in our society. we need God’s intervention, a man will slaughter his fellow human being without thinking twice. where is this generation heading to? God is our protector, but we need to be our brothers’ keepers, let us give love a chance in our midst. I believe that if you love your neighbour you will not kill him in cold blood. May God help us all!!!

By: bukola adegbite

bukola adegbite — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 15:13:43 +0000

We need to be vigilant of our eniviroment and be security conscious at all time.

God is the perfect security that we need.

By: lordtq

lordtq — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 11:08:10 +0000

it’s crazy…some of us see people getting into one trouble or the other,or even robbery on the 3rd mainland bridge and ard that alapere-ogudu bridge and don’t do nothing!!even pressing ur horn endlessly will help.

i have been robbed ard these places 3 times,the last time was like 2 weeks again,i was robbed with a PLASTIC gun!!i knew that cos i grabbed the gun after the rat collected my wife’s phone and demanded for mine too and was pointing the gun on my face,i wanted to direct the gun away from my face and felt it,then the traffic moved and nobody even stopped to help,i wanted to chase them but was advised not to,i was amazed when i saw policemen almost 50 yards away,i told them and they acted like they were deaf n dumb!!!

i still see those guys almost every night and have seen them rob people ,i have promised myself that going forward if they mistakenly cross my path after robbing i will knock them down!
people should stop using there phones,laptops etc once they are ard these places

there is no SECURITY atall,those MIB(men in black) are out there to make money not protect the citizens.

those areas u mentioned above like the bridge from Otedola,their formal hideout (thick bush)ard there has been cleared and i think some mopols are always there at night .

let’s be our brother’s keeper.

By: Onyx

Onyx — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 10:25:17 +0000

Hmmm!! this is disheartening Chaz B, but what can we say or do but to Pray for God’s guidance.

By: christy

christy — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:57:19 +0000

It is only God that will help us in this country coz government has failed us even the pple in the highest authority also failed. All this is because of money that some day they will leave here. These people should remember that anybody that kill by sword shall also die by sword. My advice to you out there, is to be conscious of yourself.

By: Florence

Florence — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 11:22:30 +0000

its really sad that human created by God , knowing what it took God to make man and people decide to take life that God made, they will surely reap what they sow, there entire generation,in Lagos state, we have these Unconcerned Attitude, Especially when Nigerians see Someone Under Attack Passersby Just Continue with There activity Ignoring the Victim all Together. this Has Made Crime rate to Increase. this attitude is very Very bad