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Talking to the PlayaZ !!!
Playaz in the house stand up !!! If you are the kind of guy that keep more than a girlfriend, for instance more than 5 girlfriends, you are indeed a Playa or say a PlayBoy as generally called. 
Guyz, what’s responsible for this attitude?? Pick up your calls and tell us your story, and also post your comments on here;;
Phone Logs:
Charles; This topic does apply to me,, i am a playa and as a matter of fact, i have more than 5 girlfriend. The funny thing is that, these girls are not interested in money or some material things, though some are in for that. But to me, what they want is just my company and i am giving it to them the way the want it. But now i am married and i a very faithful to me wife. Don’t wanna be a playa nomore !! But i am still friends with my ex-girlfriends and there is nothing intimate going on between us.
Ifeanyi: Am a playa and unfortunately for me, it is full of fun for me. It is so hard for me because the girls keep coming. The truth is that, these ladies start up the whole thing, so i give it to them. But now i am getting fed up of these ladies because i want to settle down but they keep coming back.
Anynonous: The situation of things is so worrisome but its alarming how easy it is for guys to keep large number of girls. The reason(s) a guy or a lady keeps more than a partner is quite an issue and everyone will definitely have a point to defend his or herself.
Anonymous 2: It is simply the ladies fault. I have seen cases where a guy would tell a girl that he is in a relationship but the lady still doesnt care, she is bent on having her way with the guy. And when this happens, what do you expect or think? The ladies make it too easy for guys to get them because they appear so cheap, desperate and vulnerable. As for me, i am getting married soon and i love my wife so much. I was once a playa.
Anonymous 2’s babe: I am aware that he was the lady kind of guy, we understand eachother and i am cool with him.
Tony : Ladies are at fault. Their eyes are always popping out when they see a cute, goodlooking and averagely ok guy. You see them flocking around these guys with lustful intentions, and by so doing, they fall prey to these guys. Even though they know these guys are married or engaged, they still want to have their way.
Chaz B: Ladies please slow down on these guys and look out for your own man. A text comes in saying, Chaz B, why are you exposing us??
Tony: These ladies are just as unruly as these guys. I am not a playa though.
Maureen: If 10 guys calls a lady, be rest assured that 7 out of them are playaz. Guys should just accept and say to the ladies that they just want to have fun instead of fooling us around.
Chaz B: Is there anyone that wants to testify if the ladies care if there is a ring or not??
Ade: Playaz gat games and they know how to lure the ladies, so ladies beware. And some ladies are cons too..
Supo: Wants to disagree and agree with some few people. There are ladies with self esteem and many with low self esteem. Guys can easily identify these ladies from the crowd. They go for what suits their present desires.
Chiamaka: If a guy meets a lady for the first time and lures the lady to bed, they guy is as worse as the lady because they are both cheap.
******: How would you know if a guy is serious or not? Most men just want to lay with a lady under the pretence of being serious.
Chaz B; Ladies should device pranks on their men to test their seriousness but please, donot go to the extreme cos it could go the other way.
Amaka: Chaz B, am not happy with you at all, cos you are not telling these guys what they are doing is very wrong and uncalled for.
Chaz B: But this happens every now and then.
Bimpe: Guys are at fault, all they want to do is to get a lady laid by saying so many sweet words.
John: Most girls appear cheap, and this makes it hard for guys to get serious with one woman because of how they potray themselves. Guys assume that your girls are only yours when they are with you and belong to others when they are not with you.
Chaz B: In conclusion, for the Gents, would you want your sister, daughter, neice or aunty to be played by other guyz???
Deola: God has given us the spirit of freewill. It is upto everyone to decide what is best for them instead of putting blames on others.
Finally; Guard your heart with all Diligence because out of it flows the issues of life. Proverbs 4:23
Thank You.
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FEYI said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 8:08
HELLO CHAZ B,
i've given up trying to reach you on phone.
quite an interesting topic you have here and it's so annoying that guys feel they are without blame.
The bible paints an interesting picture with the prostitute that was brought to Jesus. John 8 says let him who is without sin cast the first stone.
unfortunately, it's a man's world out there and Men feel they are above the laws of morality. it appllies both ways. an Ifeanyi saying women he gives lifts in the morning are in his bed at nite, what's does that make him. Sorry to sound rude, but he's a slut as well.
let's all go back to the Word of God and the world will be a better place.
Guys remember, Aids and VDs are real.
God bless
pocahuntas said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 10:53
Hello Chaz, I tried calling yesterday but I couldn’t get through so ‘m saying my bit here.
Some people called to blame the guys or the girls, what a joke!
It is a girls responsibility to take care of herself and if you make yourself so cheap to get into bed with every guy that takes your number or gives you a ride in his car, you have no one to blame but yourself. In the first place why should you get into a car with a perfect stranger, girl take a bus or a taxi like i do.
And the guys say they are just being helpful when they give the girls rides. Indeed! how many women stranded with their little kids, or how kids on their way to school or men like yourselves have they given rides?
My mum used to say that it is what you look for that you find. When a guy are looking for a companion for the night, he’ll definitely find them along the road, the same road that has 20 churches which he won’t see cos that’s not what he’s looking for!
There is a parable – since the hunter has learnt to shoot without missing, the bird has learnt to fly without perching. The players have said that they get the girls through car lifts and exchange of numbers, then girls do not enter into a strangers car and don’t give them your number even if you do our of courtesy, let your feet lead you home not his bed. Guys, thank you for being considerate to helpless girls on the street, but since it a a source of temptation, then don’t, and even if the girls are all over you, no one can force you to sleep with them except you, afterall a farmer can force a horse to the stream he can’t force it to drink water.
People lively godly lives with values,and protect yourselves from the madness out there. It ’s as simple as that.
sheg said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 10:23
Chaz B, the issue is that ladies always ensure they achieve every desires of their heart which is hard to comeby and to get this, many things are involved. most of them must have entered into many odd acts before they realise it. that notwithstanding, some realized and come out but how many times will ladies indulge and come-out of dirty acts before marriage and how many men can she counts have come her way? men use to capitalized on these ever-endless desires of ladies which they believe MUST be accomplished to woo them albeit with readiness to satisfy part of the desires. this will continue to exist until ladies understand that they cannot satisfy all desires at once else, even if they [ladies] know that a man is engaged or married, they'll still be ready to increase the number of ladies to the guy/man for friendship without regard.
regards.
dex said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 11:21
I was ashamed listening to guys talk about women the way they did yesterday. I wondered how it got so bad, have we lost so much self esteem that we can't even stand up and admit it when we have a problem. In other parts of the world, real men stand up and go to rehab for the disease these guys call "Player". It is simply called sexual addiction. And if you guys don't know, marriage does not stop it. If you have this problem and you get married with it, you will still stray. And sleep around.
I had some friends like these sick guys when I was growing up, their lives right now is nothing to write home about. Back then they all thought I was a stupid bookworm not to be like them….. guess they know who is stupid now.
It is so suprising that a guy will call in and say he gave a girl a lift in the morning and slept with her in the evening!!! Isn't that crazy? Why would you even ask to sleep with her (even if u want to) on the first day (assuming u don't believe in "no sex b4 marriage" like I do).
Another guy called in and said he drives around and sees girls on the road asking for lift…Did these girls stand in front of their cars and scream you wont go until you sleep with me or give me a lift? Or did they ever stop to ask themselves why they are driving around aimlessly if not to look for a loose girl to pick up.
Yes I agree some girls are loose but Chaz B they are not in the majority like these sick people who call themselves players are saying. And even if they are then we all have to go back home and deal with ourselves from the family.
If the family life is not tight then these things will happen. There are over 140million of us in Nigeria, over 40million are girls, if 2million out of these 30million are baad then we will be in a lot of trouble and I guess thats what we are seeing.
Like a caller said, did these "sick people" ever stop to imagine or ask themselves what if this girl is my sister or daughter? I have sisters and I have a lovely daughter…I pray every day they don't ever fall into the hands of these sick people!!!! And thank God my sisters didn't..I made sure I shielded warned them about stupid sick people like these.They are all married now. My daughter will surely not be an exception in Jesus name.
And Chaz B you ehn…u kept encouraging them to talk…lol. Anyway I guess one of the remedies you can recommend tomorrow, if they aren't ready to accept Christ into their lives yet, is to set up a "Sex Addict Anonymous" center and ask guys like Ifeanyi to check in.
And yes I am a guy, married to 1 woman and blessed with a lovely daughter and I am proud to say I am not a player!!!
thekulchurepple said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 11:55
This issue of playa or playboy thingy is really a big bad issue and to a lot of people it is show of pride. To most guys, its a show of manhood. Sleeping around like dogs is just a weakness on both sides of the guys and ladies, it is simply a weakeness to control the animal nature in them, which i would call the HumAnimal nature. A change of mindset and attitude towards being responsible is just the solution to this issue. Its not easy as it sounds, but with determination you can overcome it. Make this world a better place, show love to others just because of no reason.. !!!
Napoleon said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 12:30
Well, I think the issue bores down to this, if the ladies are not opening themselves up, a guy cannot be a player. I know ladies are not logical and all that, but they hanging on to guys like their life depends on it gives the guys license to keep many girlfriends…I dont do that! but I have strings of female friends cos I just like their company and all, butt If was the "player"(fornicator, in english) type, I'll be into all of them. But the issue now affects guys when they get married and a sexy secretary comes along, even after resolving not to cheatt again, they find themselves falling because they havent trained themselves with fidelity earlier in their life.
pinkberri said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 14:17
Stop being a DOG in the name of player !!!
FEYI said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 15:35
LOL!!!!
I’m glad there are still reasonable and God-fearing men around.
amen!! Halleluyah!!!
Tai said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 14:46
Chaz B, you try o, how come you've turned your program to a kind of confession ground. It's really amazing how perverse and sinful our Nigerian society has become. Where social ills such as playas are having the time of their lives. I want to say that the ladies should learn to have more self esteem and just decide to live pure and holy lives. It's a little wonder several ladies are so old and no men are willing to go for better/worse with them. Stop flaunting yourself like a packet of biscuits for sale at the store. People can't just learn to say a simple NO. If he is not for you he will go even if you sleep with him a million times. And to the men who take ladies for granted. Remember you have daughters and sisters. Men are suppossed to protect not to take advantage of women. Above all let's all remember that we're accountable to God.
Rotimi said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 15:08
Chaz B, what has happened to morality? I am a man aged 34 married with two lovely children but find it increasingly difficult that some morally depraved guys could come on air and brag about some sinful act of sexual immorality with reckless abandon. I was once misled by a friend to sleep with a woman outside marriage but I'm grateful to God that I found my way back to the centre of his will. Now, I still struggle with myself whether or not to tell my wife about this mistake. Conclusively, I want to commend your effort for the good job. God will continue to support you, yours and the moral-teaching radio Programme. Rotimi, Lagos
rina said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 16:14
Chaz, good job u r doing there. but let me just say both sex are playaz and dogs. The male playaz think its just fun not knowing they are sowing seeds. for the female they’ll just expire before their time. u need to see ladies in the 20s and 30s looking older than their age. They should all just stop. I am imaging if ‘it’ is coated with sugar. crazy people we have out there chaz, real crazy generation full of greed and wickedness. (perverse generation).
lee said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 17:30
Chaz,
Its saddening that human beings are so distorted. The person that said that there is no country for old men, forgets he will also get old too…..The sooner we wake up to who we really should be , the better for us all.
My prayer is that we do not wake up too late.
The simple answer to this quiz is ‘LOVE”, do we have love in us?, do we know “GOD”?
If we do, then we will not be in a hurry to reduce ourselves to the level of an animal, depraved minds.
Lets not forget this part in the bible,”do not be deceived, for the Lord is not mocked, for whatever a man soweth, that he shall reap.
Another part says”Birds of the same plummage, flocks together”. If we seek Good, we will definetly find. Why then are we busy trading blames. A man that says he sees only bad, cheap women, should check himself and where he goes and vice versa.(women).
The most disheartning part for me is that so many wallow in self deceit and presumed ignorance.
“He” that gloats that he has conquered women or men has forgotten that the wear and tear is on the body/spirit.
I will continue to pray that we all come to a recognition of who the Supreme Being is.Only then can we gain true salvation as we turn away in disgust from wickedness and iniquity.
chioma said on Thursday, October 8, 2009, 18:59
Hello Chaz B,
The issue of playa is a thing of the mind. You can imagine a guy that has a beautiful and well-cultured lady as a girlfriend still have the urge to go after other girls. What I don't understand is what they hope to achieve in the end. I believe it all bores down to morals, values and influence which means we have to beware of the comapny we keep whether we are being influenced for good or bad.
nnedinma okeke said on Friday, October 9, 2009, 6:30
Playing a gir is the worst type of emotional torture you can do to her. I have not really seen a girl playa but I have seen a lot of player boys. This is not fair at all. If you know you have nothing to do with a girl, gus please don't date them.
For ladies, please always define what you want in a relationship. That would save you a lot of emotional torture.
Linda said on Friday, October 9, 2009, 11:45
It gives me a lot of concern seeing ladies entering the cars of strangers for lifts let alone going to bed with them. It is so sad. As for the guys, remember that the evil men do now live with them not after them. Also, God said that He shall visit the iniquities of the fathers onto the first, second, third and fourth generations. You are sowing an evil seed that will be reaped by you and your lineage. Please think about it. If you have been hurt by a woman in the past, please, vengeance is for the Almighty God. Hurting other ladies will not make you feel better rather put you into deeper trouble. Thank you.
BENIE said on Friday, October 9, 2009, 16:24
ladies let us uphold the sanctity of womanhood, it is our pride. our bodies are the temple of the living God. Remember we will give account everything we do here on earth. God bless you all
Tjay said on Friday, October 9, 2009, 16:33
Though whichever way you look at it, either men playaz or women playaz, they are taking a very big risk for their lives, but it sounds absurb to even know that some ladies fall intothe category of being called playaz. Haba! A man can always readily walk away from a relationship but it is not that easy for ladies to do the same, because every game played by the lady playaz leaves an indelible mark on her!
kanni said on Thursday, October 22, 2009, 0:04
Chaz B, you have touched a lot of lifes and impacted so many people with the topics discussed on your programme.you are doing a good job. God bless you and al those wo have contributed positively to the programme. The issue of young and single ladies dating married men was wonderful and that of parenting too. keep it up.
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buchi said on Tuesday, November 10, 2009, 14:42
Hey Chaz B, i was once in love with a playa but didn't know he was a playa till the day i caught him red handed with another lady in bed, i decided to leave him. he didn't call till after 5months later he call to apologizes i told him that i have for given him but i can not continue with him because i can't afford sharing my guy with other lady's out there and being the first my man in my life. Chaz B please tell me what to do cos this guy keep calling for apology..but i have made up my mind not to go back to him cos if accept him back one day he will do the same thing again and will still ask for forgiveness.nevertheless i miss him bad.
Bee said on Sunday, November 22, 2009, 1:13
Nigerian men have always been players. It's culture. It's the advent of monogamy that's making it look bad. in the old days, they would have married 10 wives and no one would think anything of it.
Jepherson said on Thursday, December 17, 2009, 16:34
Like Sir Dex said, i pity them PLAYERS. Pray they don't play their way into death or possibly problems that are worse than death. They feel they are enjoying like and yeah the moment plus the memories – i tu much jor. Sorry its a life that takes you no where….
nonso said on Saturday, December 19, 2009, 11:33
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nene said on Saturday, December 19, 2009, 21:53
For me this is the most interesting topic so far !!!!
maurice said on Sunday, January 10, 2010, 1:40
I have read a lot of the comments made and to me this one makes the most since( God said that He shall visit the iniquities of the fathers onto the first, second, third and fourth generations. You are sowing an evil seed that will be reaped by you and your lineage.) God word does not go out in vain. It shall come to pass Please think about it. Its not worth it a night of pleasure for a life time of missery, its just not worth it, WAIT
tunde said on Tuesday, January 19, 2010, 11:46
That is great guy, what a bomb shell. It's amazing when guys brag the stinking sickness called Playa, i am a guy, i respect girls to the last point. if actually these guys respect their mother, wife and sister even their daughters they will not be happy telling the whole world they are players.
i thing one of the problems with this guys is that, some of them believe they are handsome tall and all that and they can call on any girl at anytime and indeed that is what they do and even the gilrs themselves are so foolish that they look for these who will break their hearth, use and dump them. may God help them. As for me i have a girl whom i respect so much and will NOT go playing games.
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